Qualities

This is a realization that I came to maybe a week or a week and a half ago...
So I have this dumb list of qualities that I want in a guy, and my main reason for having it is because I can't seem to stay level-headed enough while in a relationship to really judge if the guy I am dating is really what I am looking for. So I have these good qualities, like righteous and worthy priesthood holder and hard working and patient....And I have been getting to know these really great, high quality guys...but I wasn't interested in any of them.
And I realized, I was looking at it all wrong. I was putting the important qualities of righteousness etc above whether or not I was even interested in them.
So I changed the way I'm doing it.
Instead of finding a righteous guy and then hoping there would be a spark, I need to find a spark, and if he's righteous, we can run with it.

And so on the very tip top of my list, I added three qualities. They are as follows-- Awesome, Fun, and Love to be with them. If those count as qualities.

And I am thinking/hoping that this will help me to find more happiness. :)